Feeling Overwhelmed? Turn Towards Each Other, Not Away.
… It is important to do this because it breaks down human self-delusion and isolation. It is important to do this because in doing…
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When “Perfect” Gets in the Way of Pleasure: Rigidity, Armoring & Sexual Connection
Erica* appeared confident; a poster child for the American beauty standard. Straight white teeth. Long, sleek blonde hair. Strong, upright posture. A…
Male Sexual Confidence: Why Does it Matter in a Relationship?
“Men think she’s not interested in sex, but it’s not that… she’s not interested in the sex she’s gonna have. In order…
Men, Vulnerability & Close Relationships
It is no secret that many men are raised from boyhood to dismiss their feelings; to treat them as of lesser importance…
The History of ‘Guilty Pleasure’
I have a radical idea: …let’s take down the term “guilty pleasure.” What if we stop feeling guilty about pleasure and the…
6 Ways to Escape the Pleasure Paradox
Too Busy for Pleasure? Don’t worry, feeling sensual and getting sh*t done are not mutually exclusive. “If the world were merely seductive,…
The Erotic Connection: Keys to Lifelong Passion in Relationships (And They’re Not What You May Think They Are)
Years ago, I was set to teach a women’s workshop entitled, “Unraveling the Pleasure Paradox & Embracing Erotic Energy.” To my surprise,…
Unraveling the Mystery of Pleasure
What brings you pleasure? Think about something that gives you pleasure. Most people can list the foods they love to eat (that…
Simple Ways to Free Yourself from Fear of Rejection and Abandonment in Relationships
From all appearances, Cheryl and Sam* are in love. They thoroughly enjoy their time together, are affectionate and are a delight to…