Understanding “Modern” Tantra and Its Connection to Sexual Unity

Imagine you and your partner possess a secret that vastly improves how you intimately engage with one another; something that helps you feel close; something that helps you get into the mood; something that helps you let go of your problems and concerns and enjoy each other. That is what my secret sauce is [...]

By |2024-11-11T17:50:45-06:00July 23, 2024|Intimacy, Relationships|

The Three Bases, Pizza and Lovemaking

When I was growing up, baseball's three bases were a prime metaphor for sexual activity. Baseball’s bases were likened to the stages of sexual foreplay. Getting to first base, second base and so on were markers of levels of sexual intimacy. A home run would be "having sex" or intercourse. After dates, both males [...]

By |2024-11-11T17:50:11-06:00June 18, 2024|Relationships|

People Pleasing Part II- The Good News- Just in time for Valentine’s Day!

We all know a people-pleaser! That would be the person in your marriage, friend group or in your family – or possibly even at work – who closely monitors others, attends to the emotional climate of the group, and speaks and acts in ways that helps others just feel better about the relations underway. [...]

By |2024-11-11T17:48:03-06:00February 14, 2024|Relationships|

How Being “Too Nice” (aka People Pleasing) Impacts Relationships – Part I

In this two-part article, you will learn about " people pleasing" and “people pleasers” and gain the tools necessary to discover your own people-pleasing tendencies so you can choose to stay true to your own needs and desires, distinct from the good opinions of others while maintaining strong, balanced relationships. What is the condition of [...]

By |2025-04-08T19:12:54-06:00January 3, 2024|Relationships|
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